St. Andrews School is coming down

Demolition of St. Andrews School

I have no attachment to it. It’s just a little creepy to watch this huge animal take down the school, bite by humongous bite.

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39 Christmas photos for 2010


Family gatherings for Christmas 2010 included my mom’s first-ever get-together in her condo the weekend before the holiday. Small space, but we found places to sit for all 17 who showed up. Also – Christmas day at our house – almost no photos because one daughter complained she hadn’t showered yet and didn’t like her hair. We ended the day in Muskegon at Clay’s folks – a few more photos there, but not many.

I am disappointed in the photos taken with my little 7-megapixel Fuji camera. Most are “fuzzy,” even in bright daylight. I really need to learn the settings on that thing. I mean it’s no great camera, but I should get better pictures than these.

The real interesting photos I think are the square ones taken with the Instagram app on my iPhone. Love some of the filters you can implement – makes for some very nicely finished photos!

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2010 ArtPrize: My top 5 takeaways

Third-place winner Lure/Wave by Beili Liu

My husband and I spent every Saturday and Sunday for three weeks exploring ArtPrize, not to mention one or two fine warm evenings during the final few days. Spending that much time together outside the house/yard was an unusual experience, to say the least. It was almost like taking a vacation – something else we need to do more now that the kids are grown.
But that was only part of the specialness. Following the lead of many local bloggers, here are my top takeaways from ArtPrize 2010:

1. Crowded is great
I can honestly say I enjoyed the crowds, moving through them from venue to venue, waiting with dozens of others on a street corner to cross, watching the throngs from a perch near the window of a packed restaurant. So many people in Grand Rapids! So vibrant, so alive – a real city with real things to do and see. I heard more than one comment in the vein of “This is just like Chicago!” I even heard one guy say “It’s like New York!” Well, almost: people were way nicer.

2. Standing in line can be worth it
As I’ve gotten older (read: no longer taking kids to amusement parks), I hold more tightly to the tenet that almost nothing is worth waiting in line for. Not groceries, movies, game tickets or a restaurant meal. Not a life-size pencil drawing of a cavalry regiment, either, I thought. But I was wrong. And it wasn’t just the viewing of the top-prize-winning piece that was worth it to me. It was the spectacle of everything – vendors outside the GRAM selling hotdogs to boys and their grandpas at 10 a.m., an ArtPrize volunteer rushing past, camera in hand, still on a mission even on the final day, little kids dancing in front of an outsized harp-looking installation making music through the magic of a motion-sensor, walking into a lobby teeming with people only to find another orderly line inside, winding through rooms and up the stairs. It was the humanness inside, like the man whose knee replacement made it difficult to stand still for long periods gamely moving through the line with his wife. It was the opportunity to wend slowly through the beautiful new GRAM and carefully consider all the exhibits, ArtPrize and others. I’d said no to the line every day until the last. I’m so glad I didn’t miss the good things that unfolded when I finally said yes.

3. It’s good people still make their kids take piano lessons
It was encouraging to see so many playing their hearts out on a city street corner for nothing but applause and the sheer enjoyment of it. Yet strangely, we rarely saw a woman or girl sitting at one of those pianos in the “Play me I’m yours” installation. They were almost always adolescent boys or young men, and they always played something dramatic or jazzy. I want to believe that the dearth of female pianists just meant that girls don’t find a street piano to be their preferred concert venue (we don’t like showing off, you know). I hope that was the case.
4. Down with  Down
I voted “Up” a lot of pieces.  But  “Down”?  Not so much, in fact, not at all. It takes a lot for an artist to create a piece and enter it in a competition. Who am I to crap on that with my Down vote? It’s too out of keeping with the event and with the spirit of our town.  One of my  daughters was appalled at the idea of voting Down on the output of someone’s heart and soul. “How would you feel,” she wondered, “if people hated something you put all of yourself into?” I have to agree. Do away with the Down vote – it’s just mean spirited and counts for nothing anyway.

5. Technology carried the day
Technology was definitely integral to advancing the conversation. An event as huge as ArtPrize obviously relies heavily on technology for many aspects, not the least of which is to create buzz. Even though it seems an impossible task to cut the field from hundreds to 10 in one week, by the end of that week, enough buzz was generated that nobody should have been surprised by the final picks. It was impressive see/hear the popularity of particular venues and installations spread – on Facebook, via Twitter, SCVNGR, FourSquare, the website, etc. (although I never did more than take a photo for SCVNGR- too much to think about!) I watched the “Discourse” event live on UStream from my living room, and participated in the online chat, where several non-Top-10 artists also showed up to offer comment. Yes, there was plenty of print and broadcast coverage of ArtPrize – even some at the national level. But if you aren’t social-media or technologically inclined, well – you miss a lot.


Looking to next year

My husband and I ventured downtown for dinner a week ago and sure enough, our town was back to “normal.” Many fewer people were on the street, traffic was minimal and most of the venue signs were put away for another year. This past weekend was another beautiful one here in West Michigan, and I rather missed prowling ArtPrize venues.
This year’s success will likely beget an ArtPrize for 2011 that’s even bigger and better. I know we’ll be there (maybe I’ll even venture to volunteer!) What about you?

Here’s my Flickr set:

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How to keep your customers coming back

I had only done business with Han’s Cleaners once before this. It was last winter, nearing the end of sweater-wearing and my one cashmere needed cleaning before I put it away for spring and forgot about it. I had mentioned to Clay that I was really tired of the shoddy work done by the big franchise cleaner here in town and I wanted to try somebody else.

So he took it to Han’s, the Chinese-run cleaners in the shopping center adjacent to the franchise cleaners.

I waited weeks to pick up that sweater and when I finally did, Mr. Han made a huge deal out of the fact that this was our first time doing business. “You’ll be very happy with this,” he told me and made me promise to come back. I said I would.

That was in March and since I lost my job in late May, I haven’t had occasion to take anything to the cleaners until now, just a few days before a job interview, when I found that my black jacket needed cleaning.

I drove up to Han’s.  When I walked in, a bell rang. Nobody was in front, but I heard someone in the back. Soon out came Mr. Han, grinning hugely, glasses perched low on his nose. “Hello, how are you?” he asked. “This your first time here?”

“Second,” I said, holding up two fingers in a lame attempt to head off any misunderstanding.

“Are you in the computer?”

“I don’t know … it was months ago.”

“Phone number?”

“Um,” I said, thinking maybe Clay’s number would be the one, “Try 862 …”

He waved that away and said, “Last name?”  VanderVelde is a name that people can’t even seem to understand in Lansing, so I didn’t hold much hope for any recognition with a non-native English speaker.  Gamely, I spelled it to him.

A record apparently came up on the screen. “Not since 1997!” he announced.

“Oh, no. That’s not me.”

“Twelve years! You came once – twelve years ago!”

“What is the first name you have there?” I asked.

He didn’t answer.  “What is the address?”

I told him. He keyed it in and read something different from the screen. “No, that’s not me,” I said, thinking the mystery solved. But he persisted.

I’m not sure exactly what he said next, but the gist of it was this: So what if he took my order now? What if I didn’t come back another time? Should he waste time putting my name in the computer now for just one visit? Look at these people! Just one visit in twelve years! And you haven’t been here in months! Why not?

Desperate, I threw out the only thing I had:  “I have been out of work for months and haven’t had any use for dry cleaning,” I said. “I have a job interview on Monday, and I need this jacket cleaned.”

“Ah!” said Mr. Han. “I tell you what. You put your name and phone number here.” He drew two X’s on a piece of carbon receipt paper. “Then if you come back again, I’ll put you in the computer.” He beamed and slid the paper across the counter to me. He seemed satisfied with these terms.

I printed my name and phone on the slip and passed it back to him, along with the jacket.

He was smiling again. “When you want this?

“Saturday?” I ventured. He wrote the day and time on the slip of paper and handed it to me.  I thanked him and left.

Saturday afternoon  I took a short break from a client project and remembered my dry cleaning. “Will you pul-eeze go pick up my jacket for me?” I asked Clay, whining just a little. “I’m sooo busy. The reality of course was that I had neither the energy nor the will to face Mr. Han.  So Clay, nice guy that he is, did me the favor, saved me the hassle.

Odd as it may seem, Mr. Han’s approach to customer service works for him. In spite of his making much over when or whether I’d been there before,  he did  say that I would be happy with his work, and I was. But I also noticed something else :  Mr Han knows his customers by name. He is attentive. He does quality work and is adamant that customers know and appreciate it. He demands your return, literally and figuratively. There’s  an easy familiarity there that’s only achieved  when there’s respect and trust on both sides of the counter.  You don’t get that kind of service just anywhere. And when you find it, you keep going back.

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New old car

2000 Mercury Sable SE. A nice find.

I began my new car search looking at Jettas and yes, more Malibus.

I ended with this. Nice car, good value – a nice all-around find.

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Malibu's end

My wrecked car

My wrecked car

Well, I’ve detailed every other car catastrophe we’ve had these past few years, including Susan’s romp through the trees on Grand River Dr., Meagan’s I-96 rollover on the way to the Grand Haven Beach and the burning of the minivan in  a downtown parking lot.

So I can’t miss writing up the most recent incident as well.

I had a meeting at a client’s office on Tuesday afternoon and was on my way home.  The day was very warm and as I turned onto our street all I could think about was how I couldn’t wait to change into my shorts and tank. Almost there, I thought, as I flicked  on the blinker and slowed down for the left turn into my driveway.

Suddenly, BAM!  I heard a loud noise from behind me and the car and I slid violently forward.  “Damn, now I”m past the driveway!” I thought before the realization struck that I’d been hit.  I looked up into the rear view and saw the big grey Ford truck that had been behind me since before we turned onto my street.  Then driver climbed out of the truck and made his way to my car. I was in a daze and angry beyond words,  so I tried to ignore him as approached the closed window, asking, “Are you OK?”

“Nooo!” I wailed, then realizing I couldn’t really ignore him or what had happened, I opened the door and climbed out of the car.

He was driving a company truck and was on the job. He said he was looking for an address on my street and had looked down at a piece of paper. When he looked up, I was stopped and well, by the time he saw that, it was too late.

The rest is history and not really worth recounting. The insurance company says the car is totaled, which we suspected. I believe I’m getting a far amount for it – close to what I paid for it, amazingly.

So now I am poring over  Craig’s List looking for a suitable used car for myself. Not too old, not too many miles, under $4,000, if that’s even possible.  Do you know of anything available around Grand Rapids? Let me know!

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Crescent Bay Point Park, Laguna Beach

There are seals on that rock out there. Honest.

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Memorial Day

Rain is relentlesss! Our road is flooded. on Twitpic

The fury of thunderstorms. Our road and yard are flooded.

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Credo

So the church choir is singing the Credo from Schubert’s Mass in G tomorrow as part of the Lenten observance, and of course they’ve all sung it before and I never have. We’ve rehearsed it the requisite three weeks ahead of time, but since everyone seems to know it so well, we’ve done no woodshedding of the kind I need to learn the piece.

I considered skipping tomorrow, but (Westminster  Winds conductor) Lee is conducting while Helen is out, and – added bonus – we’re being accompanied by strings. This is always a treat because the players will mostly be church members who play in the Grand Rapids Symphony.

So … how to practice and learn this music? I searched it on YouTube, found a suitable performance and sang along, music in front of me (much to the dismay of my son and husband – oh well.)

Among the many high school perfomances – and a heroic performance from a Latin country with 4 singers and 4 string players – I found this from a CityMusic Cleveland  performance that I thought was very good, if about 4 times faster than seems to be the generally accepted interpretation. I like it.

After playing this over and over  – and stumbling through some of the Latin, which I know I won’t have to sing as fast as this – I think I’m ready for the morning.  Take a listen – it’s really beautiful (and I can’t believe I’ve never been exposed to it before this). I hope one day I get a chance to sing Schubert’s entire mass.

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10 job survival tips for my younger self

Been thinking lately about all the the lessons in business that I learned the hard way. Here are 10 things I know now that I wish I’d known ‘back when’:

  1. No matter how clueless your boss is; no matter how much she “doesn’t get it,” she holds your career in her hands. Everything you do on the job is for her, under her direction; Everything you are, she has allowed or paved the way for. To think otherwise is silly, immature and naiive.
  2. You can do nothing by yourself. Collaboration and teamwork are not just essential, they are mandatory for getting things done.  Team players get rewarded; solo efforts rarely do
  3. No matter what you’re doing, make sure your boss knows about it. You never want her to be surprised by anything she hears or sees with regard to you or your work. What she doesn’t know may not hurt her ( or subsequently, you), but on the other hand, she also can’t promote or reward you for things she doesn’t know about.
  4. If you get called out on a mistake, own it, even if you don’t think you were in the wrong. Don’t make excuses – it makes you look  ill prepared, whiny. Do make the extra effort to get it right the next time
  5. Always answer email from your boss
  6. Never argue with your boss. See #1
  7. Despite your smarts and education, there are people around you who are smarter and who know more.  A LOT more. Open your ears and especially  your mind to listen and learn.
  8. Don’t know the answer?  Do the research, find it. Wrong answer: I don’t know. Right answer: I don’t know, but I’ll find out and get back to you.
  9. Don’t bring a problem to the boss unless you also bring at least one suggestion for solving it.
  10. Come early. Stay late.
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